Nobody should treat you as an option even though the person satisfies you sexually and gives you everything that you want. If there are other yous in the equation, it will not work. If a person loves you, he or she will be loyal and faithful. He or she will do everything to ensure that you don’t get hurt. If you really like someone, you have to ensure that it is only him or her. You deserve to be more than a second option and more than an afterthought.
It is important to know your worth. Do not accept to be anyone’s plan B when plan A does not work. You should not be anyone’s good for a moment or replacement. When someone treats you as an option, they will run to you only when they have a need that only you can help. They will run at you when they are angry, although when you are in the same situation, they will not care. They will not even spare some time to listen to you. Time is important. When I fall in love, I want to be serious and sure. People who treat you like the only choice will always make you the first priority. They will also consider your emotions and feelings when making a decision.