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Getting over your Ex

Hey , I hope you are winning in everything be it friendship, work,school, Family, relationships etc. I talked about rebound relationships on my previous post and today we are going to talk about ways to completely get over your ex and move on. People breakup everyday and i thought why not address this issue. Comment down below what your tips are .


Have you ever found yourself in a situation where you block your ex on all the social media platform and blacklist their number? Then you end up missing them and decide to call or leave a message. With time you find yourself back to them again. It becomes a circle and it nearly becomes impossible to move on.

A lot of situations and circumstances may make you go back to your ex. Maybe you are telling yourself ” Let me give him time he will change? He/she will be a better person? I love him/her too much? “. When it comes to change people hardly change. Change is a process and the person must be willing to change. You also have to be patient change doesn’t happen overnight.

I am going to share some of the tips that i have used to get over my ex:

1.Love yourself.

This is so important take yourself out for a date more frequently, buy yourself a dress and buy yourself some flowers. Wake up and dress up do your make up this may seem so simple but it can have a great impact on your mood and attitude through out the day.

2. Focus on your growth

Growth may be spiritually, emotionally or physically. Make sure you are busy doing something it can be a hobbie, Fitness routine, reading the bible, reading a book, learning how to play a piano etc. You can also decide to list the activities you are going to get involved in the whole week.

3. Surround yourself with people that love you.

Break up can be sometimes depressing so make sure you have people that love you around be it family or friends. Surround yourself with people who lift up your spirit and make you laugh. This helps a lot.

4.Think about the things you don’t like about your ex.

Before you decide to get back to your ex the things you think about is what you will miss. What if you just though about what you will not miss or what irritates you when you are with them. This way it will be so hard to think about getting back your ex.


This points have especially helped me a lot and i decided to share them because my blog targets the struggles that a 20 year and above individual faces on a day to day life.


Published by abovetwentylife

Welcome! I started this blog in 2019. I am passionate about writing some of the challenges that adults go through. I hope you find this posts educational and inspiring.

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